guaranteed victory

in judge chapter 7 8 9
http://www.o-bible.com/cgibin/ob.cgi?version=hb5&book=jug&chapter=6

summary big long story into small one and state only conclusion

unconditonal love

even husb is not good enough, once married, then wife should "SUBMIT to" still
not obey though...
and depend on individual case!
and likewise wife to husb

wife should not use sex as a weapon like
stay outside of the bedroom tonight cos
satan is going to take away the husb!?

10%

2 basic rule for kid
put god first everything even marriage
10% donation

first trust him based on good faith

danny: donate to god and not the church
fh: donate to catholic who pay lawsuit ? rather to real needy

danny: it is about the giving out and not the whom receiptant
fh: giving out can be to anybody less-than-religious

danny: danny donate before he got it so he eat potato for 2 wk, just drive benz recently, reasonable;
fh: danny donate cos he got it, with benz and expensive watch!;

danny: don't compare cos it means "praise-to-person"
fh: not trying to be personalized when i mention danny's wealth
(people don't sense danny's intention about comparison and personal attack to danny at all after I link both together, i guess but on the other hand, alot of jealousy deep inside fh and hardship internal)

afterward:
joe reminded fh to be careful of health
jojo also mentioned about keep up the good work
cos they feel i am suffering?